Try out this little experiment. The next time you chat with your friends, neighbors, or co-workers, ask them if they’ve been busy lately. I’ll bet you almost everyone you meet, from any station of life, will confess to being “busy”. ”Things have been crazy lately.” ”Really busy.” You might even notice yourself saying it. {I’d love to hear the results of your experiment – leave a comment to this post.}
It seems like we are all busy. I know I am. Observing the lives of others around me, I will concur that they are busy too. Many who are a generation or two older than me often comment that life is just so much busier than it used to be “back in the day”.
Why? I’m not a sociologist. But it seems we almost take pride in our busy-ness. Imagine confessing to your neighbor, “No, I really haven’t been very busy lately.” Do you feel a twinge of guilt? Like you don’t quite measure up to the rest of us very busy people?
But we pay a price for living this way. I’ve noticed that we’re not just busy, we’re too busy.
Too busy to spend enough time with our loved ones.
Too busy to really get to know our neighbors.
Too busy to stop and visit with that person at the grocery store who really looks like they need a kind word.
Too busy to pray.
Too busy for real fellowship.
Too busy for the things that really matter.
Too busy.
Many have commented that our society is causing all of this. The speed of the river of life has increased, and we’re all being swept away by its current. But I don’t think that’s a complete explanation. Such a view makes us victims. But the truth is, we have a choice. The current is strong, but we can always choose to fight it.
Jesus always had time for the person that needed a personal touch. Despite the crushing demands on His time, He somehow managed it all – time with His Father, time with His disciples, time with the crowds, time to rest. I think if Jesus walked among us today, He would head straight for the river bank. There, He could live life at His pace, directed by the “rhythms of grace” of His own heart and the Holy Spirit.
I’d love to hear your thoughts.